‘Transgender’ Couple Prepares to Tell Children That Dad is Really Mom, Mom Really Dad

BowserReports are circulating about a transgender couple living in Kentucky that is preparing to tell their children that their father is really their mother and that their mother is really their father.

Jason Bowser, 32, who now goes by Bianca, and Nicole Bowser, 27, who now goes by Nik, were married in November 2011, and now have two young sons with another child on the way. Jason, who works as a drag entertainer, has lived as a woman for the past 11 years, and Nicole, who works as a bar manager, has lived for the past seven years as a man.

“I was a tomboy and wanted to dress in jeans and t-shirts,” Nicole told the Daily Mail of her childhood. “I came out as a lesbian when I was 17, but when I spoke to other lesbians they said they liked being a girl, whereas I hated it. My whole life I wanted to look like a boy.”

“I knew there was something different and effeminate about me,” stated Jason. “When I was 17, we had a school pageant and all the boys dressed in drag. I loved it. When I was 18, I started working as a drag act. I met lots of transgender entertainers and started transitioning myself.”

The two met in 2009, and were married two years later. They both wanted to have reconstructive surgery to change their reproductive organs, but realized that if they were to have their own children, they would have to retain the organs that they were born with.

“[W]e wanted a biological child; this was the only way we could do it,” Nicole explained.

But because having a child made Nicole feel feminine, she opted for a Cesarean so she would not have to give birth the natural way.

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BowersNow, the Bowsers, who are currently expecting their third child, state that their sons Kai, 3, and Pax, almost 1, do not know that their mother is really their father and their father is really their mother. They call Nicole “Dad” and Jason “Mom.”

“The kids currently have no idea,” Jason outlined. “It’s not like strangers ever guess in restaurants or at the shops.”

But the Bowsers state that they will eventually break the news to their children.

“I don’t know when we will start to tell them, maybe when Kai is around six, but they will need to be old enough to understand,” Jason said. “It is important they know because it’s a big secret to keep from your children and if they found out another way they could hold huge resentment.”

However, Bill Muehlenberg, an American-born apologist and ethicist now living in Melbourne, Australia, wrote in a blog post today that he finds the arrangement to be “insane.”

“Wow. So my mum is my dad and my dad is my mum. Right. And that won’t be a problem for any child. Gotcha. This is moonbattery of very serious proportions, and it seems to be getting worse each passing day,” he wrote. “Pushing this agenda is not helping people but is causing more harm and confusion. But since when do the activists care about how much damage they are causing, either to individuals or to society?”

Muehlenberg pointed to an article by Dr. Paul McHugh, former psychiatrist-in-chief at Johns Hopkins Hospital, who came to a similar conclusion.

“At the heart of the problem is confusion over the nature of the transgendered. ‘Sex change’ is biologically impossible,” McHugh wrote. “People who undergo sex-reassignment surgery do not change from men to women or vice versa. Rather, they become feminized men or masculinized women. Claiming that this is civil-rights matter and encouraging surgical intervention is in reality to collaborate with and promote a mental disorder.”


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  • Rob

    Did you catch that? The man who ‘switched’ to a woman knows he’s a man and is going to admit it to the kid (indoctrination at its finest), and the woman who ‘switched’ to a man knows she’s a woman and will admit that as well. But to everyone else “No, I’m really a woman and wasn’t meant to be a man”.

    • Hillary

      Seriously! You couldn’t have said it better. It is such a contradiction! If they truly believe that they have “changed into the opposite sex” then they wouldn’t feel as though they are lying to their children by withholding that information. Obviously they have some rationality left, if they recognize that there is something to tell.
      Ahh! This world is so messed up.

  • Mark

    wow is right, this is just so very sad, my wife’s got a nephew who thinks he’s a she, so I’m quite familiar with this issue, indeed the KJV Bible is 100% GOD’S Verbally, Plenary inspired Word in English and basically this group of people needs to be born again and the very help they are running from is Jesus Himself, but if we myself and anyone of us continues to live in sin and just think well I’m ok and that’s your way etc., is just truly deceived and needs to really seek The LORD truly sincerely repent of our sins and get right with Him, we are truly living in wild and crazy disastrous times in this world it’s a madhouse, please pray for these and all of us to get born again as Jesus says and get saved Biblically please see the following for help for all faiths and for help for Homosexual friends GOD bless , we must preach them the Truth in Love so they can be brought to The LORD and Savior, to not tell them the Truth is to sin and help them to hell,
    sorry the word gay is not to be hijacked for the politically correct of the current day gay means happy so to be Biblical it’s either lesbian or homosexual etc., black white, etc., not african american, the following article is however to gay friends and is the message they all need to hear please send to all your so called gay friends,

    http://faithsaves.net/TruthforGayFriends/

    http://faithsaves.net/apologetics-and-false-religions/

    http://faithsaves.net/Truth for Gay Friends/

  • Nicole

    Why aren’t you using their names? It is disrespectful and inappropriate to use their old names and genders. There is no Jason Bowser and there is no Nicole Bowser. There is a Biance and a Nik; these are the names that should be used throughout the article. I would bet that these are their legal names as well.

    • Alien & Stranger

      Nicole is still a woman, despite the “cosmetic” surgery, name change, etc. That is why she is bearing children. Gender Identity Disorder is all in the mind – there is no physiological support for it. By contrast, Intersex people (aka hermaphrodites) have physiological evidence, even if only in their chromosomes – and they prefer to stay the way they are.

  • MichelofChrist

    I find it quite “odd,” that these two seem to be “aping” God’s original pattern for a “family”: A mom and a dad; a mother and a father, despite being two women.

    Apparently, deep down, they know what the “original pattern” for a “family” should be: One male, and one female.

    • mikewinddale

      Who says it’s deep-down? This article gives no indication what the couple thinks about homosexual relationships. For all we know, they’re opposed to homosexual marriage.

  • Michael

    This is nothing more than psychological and emotional child abuse.

  • None of your business

    What I want to know is why you care about something that is really none of your concern. Except that this couple was stupid to not stay private. They are giving idiots like you a field day

  • the guy in the chair

    trangender is mental illness

  • Jill Darling

    “There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female,for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” He is Bride of Christ, she is a son of God.

  • Getreal

    The chromosomes don’t lie regardless of how much graffiti one uses.

  • Crystal

    What a slippery slope it is when you start sliding down the pit of immoral depravity! God has given us free will… we either use it for good or we use it for evil… but today, it seems like Society is choosing evil because it takes less strength to do so! It’s so much harder to be righteous and moral than it is to be evil and morally depraved! What a sad commentary on the state of America… no wonder we’re considered the most immoral country in the World!