Fight or Flight: Trial Underway of Virginia Man Accused of Helping Ex-Lesbian Flee Country With Daughter

miller-isabella-compressedBUFFALO, N.Y. — Several witnesses took the stand on Tuesday as both the defense and prosecution laid out details to the jury surrounding a Virginia man accused of aiding an ex-lesbian turned professing Christian who fled the country with her daughter in 2009 to escape a court order.

Robert Hemley, who is representing Philip Zodhiates in court, described the accused as a “unique and special individual” who has a willingness to help those in need, and who has lived out his love for the least of these through his adoption of six children.

Prosecutor Paul Van De Graaf characterized Zodhiates as intentionally acting to obstruct justice after it appeared that a former lesbian who sought to discontinue child visitations with her previous partner “might not get their way in the courts.”

As previously reported, Zodhiates is charged with international parental kidnapping and conspiracy for allegedly driving Lisa Miller and her then seven-year-old child from Virginia to New York, where she crossed over into Canada before fleeing to Nicaragua.

“This case is about religious intolerance of same-sex relationships,” prosecutorial filings state, according to the Associated Press. He “helped [Miller] break the law by taking Isabella outside the country in the name of those strong religious views.”

Zodhiates, the son of the late Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, a Greek-born Bible scholar who founded the missions and relief ministry Advancing the Ministries of the Gospel International (AMG), plead not guilty to the charges in 2014.

On Tuesday, defense and prosecution had differing opinions during their opening statements about Zodhiates’ intentions and the legal parental rights of Miller’s former partner Janet Jenkins.

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“They chose to have a child together,” Van De Graaf argued.

“Lisa Miller is the biological mother. Janet Jenkins never decided to adopt,” Hemley contended.

Attorneys also disagreed about the laws in place at the time that Miller fled the country, as Hemley said that there were no special visitation orders in effect when Zodhiates became involved, and that the motion to transfer custody didn’t occur until after Miller had left the country. Van De Graaf argued that the court had recognized Jenkins as having parental rights.

Hemley contended that the nation’s courts weren’t settled on parental rights surrounding homosexual unions in 2009, while Van De Graaf asserted that Zodhiates acted with full knowledge of the law.

Several witnesses also took the stand on Tuesday during Zodhiate’s trial, including Ervin Horst, a retired Canadian farmer and semi-retired Mennonite pastor, who drove Lisa Miller from Niagara Falls to the Toronto airport.

When asked about his involvement, Horst said he didn’t know Miller’s plans as she never stated why she was traveling, and would not have participated if he had known his assistance was illegal. He said that he had been asked by Pastor Ken Miller to pick up Lisa Miller in Buffalo, but stated that he would only meet her in Canada, as he “didn’t feel good” about crossing the border. He later agreed to meet her at a hotel in Niagara Falls.

Horst is not facing criminal charges.

A representative from Golden Rule Travel, who handled Miller’s travel arrangements, also testified, likewise stating that they did not know the reason for Miller’s travel. Ginamarie Jonah of the Canadian Border Services Agency testified that she witnessed a taxi come across the border.

As previously reported, the situation began in 2000, when Miller, then a homosexual, joined in a civil union with lesbian Jenkins in the state of Vermont. Following an artificial insemination procedure from a male sperm donor, Miller gave birth to a daughter, named Isabella, in 2002. But even then, Miller had concern.

“There were numerous incidents of Janet going to [the Internet] and putting up naked women on the screen saver, and I would ask her to please change it,” Lisa later told the court, according to the Washington Post.

“I don’t have clean hands, either. Previously, before … the baby was born, [pornography] was used in our relationship,” she said. “When we moved to Vermont, Isabella was 4 months old, and I said this stuff has to go … There’s a baby in this house now. I don’t want that.”

In 2003, Miller and Jenkins split over continued tension in their relationship, and Miller moved to Virginia. She renounced homosexuality and reportedly turned to Jesus Christ for salvation.“It wasn’t a struggle,” she recalled of walking away from the homosexual lifestyle. “I felt peace.”

Miller, who had previously been married to her college boyfriend, said that she had struggled with being intimate with her husband due to an abusive childhood, which adversely affected their marriage. She turned to alcohol for solace, and later became involved in a relationship with a woman, but only for the companionship.

“I did not feel sexually attracted to women,” Miller said.

She met Jenkins at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting while seeking help and soon moved in with her, where one step led to another.

When the civil union between Miller and Jenkins was officially dissolved, the court gave custody to Miller, while also granting visitation rights to Jenkins.

While Miller did allow Isabella to spend time with Jenkins for a while, she reportedly became concerned at the information that her daughter was providing to her following the visitations.

Later, Miller testified to the court that the visits were causing great trauma to Isabella. She claimed that at six years old, the girl was forced to take baths together with Jenkins, and that the girl was openly touching herself inappropriately. She also stated that Isabella was withdrawn and talked about suicide at times.

“Isabella came home and said, ‘Mommy, will you please tell Janet that I don’t have to take a bath anymore at her house,’” Miller told reporters in 2008. “I asked her what happened. She said, ‘Janet took a bath with me.’ I asked her if she had a bathing suit on. ‘No, Mommy.’ She had no clothes on and it totally scared Isabella. She had never seen this woman except once in 2 ½ years and she takes a bath with her.”

“Last year, Isabella put a comb up to her neck and said she wanted to kill herself after one of the visits,” she outlined. “She took a comb and pressed it into her neck and said, ‘I want to kill myself.’ I don’t know where she got that. It was immediately after a visit. Other people have seen huge changes.”

Miller then filed for exclusive custody of Isabella, and the court agreed. She told the Washington Post, “I don’t see Janet as a parent, first and foremost. Secondly, I don’t want to expose Isabella to Janet’s lifestyle. It goes against all my beliefs. I am raising Isabella to pattern herself after Christ. That’s my job as a Christian mom. Homosexuality is a sin.”

However, Jenkins fought the ruling all the way up to the Virginia Supreme Court, which in 2008, ruled in favor of granting Miller’s former lesbian partner visitation rights. Miller refused.

The following year, family court judge Richard Cohen warned Miller that she must allow Isabella to visit Jenkins and threatened that if she did not do so, he would transfer full custody to Jenkins. In November 2009, Cohen followed through with his threats and ordered Miller to hand the child over to Jenkins.


However, Miller had fled the country with Isabella before he issued the transfer order, and for some time, none knew the whereabouts of the two. It was later discovered that they had fled to Nicaragua via the help of a number of Mennonite Christians and their contacts.

Mennonite pastor Kenneth Miller of Stuarts Draft, Virginia (no relation) is currently serving 27 months behind bars on international kidnapping charges for helping Miller. Now, Zodhiates is facing similar charges, as he is accused of driving Miller from Virginia to Buffalo, New York, where she then crossed the Rainbow Bridge into Canada. (See the indictment here.)

American missionary to Nicaragua Timothy “Timo” Miller—no relation to any in the case—is also accused of arranging Lisa Miller’s travel arrangements from Canada and assisting her upon her arrival to Nicaragua.

Co-prosecutor Assistant U.S. Attorney Paul Van De Graaf confirmed to Christian News Network on Tuesday that Timo Miller is currently behind bars in Nicaragua and might be deported back to the U.S.. However, the decision is up to Nicaraguan officials as there is no extradition process in place.

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  • Nidalap

    Interestingly, in this case Ms. Jenkins is actually being treated on an equal level as if this had been a heterosexual relationship breaking up.
    Just as in a normal breakup, the birth mother wouldn’t want the guy with no genetic ties to the child hanging on to her, more especially if he were taking baths with her.
    This case is about homosexuals gaining SPECIAL rights over children not their own. These rights aren’t accorded to heterosexual people in these situations. They are accorded to homosexuals only by virtue of their chosen lifestyle.
    They’re not going after equality here. They’re demanding SUPERIOR rights…

    • Ambulance Chaser

      Really? You dom’t think that if Jenkins were a man, and Isabella’s biological father, that he would have standing to punish his ex-wife for skipping the country with their daughter in violation of a court order? This is EXACTLY the same rights that would be accorded to a straight couple.

      • AkRidgie

        If Jenkins was Isabella’s biological father, yes, as such Jenkins would have rights to the child and Miller would be facing criminal charges. But Jenkins has NO biological relation to Isabella NOR did she apparently adopt Isabella, which would give her rights and also make Miller’s actions illegal. Currently, with the facts as we know it, Jenkins is demanding rights to a child that she legally has no rights to. Jenkins is not the mother, she is not the father, nor is she an adoptive parent of Isabella. She should not have rights to a child she has no legal claim over.

        • Michael C

          NOR did she apparently adopt Isabella… Jenkins is demanding rights to a child that she legally has no rights to.

          That’s not what we’ve seen in the law surrounding heterosexual couples concerning parental rights with children conceived through IVF.

          Had Isabella been born through IVF to a married heterosexual couple, her married heterosexual parents would be legally recognized as such regardless of biological ties.

          Isabella Miller-Jenkins (as is her birth name) has two legal parents.

          • Nidalap

            Had she been…
            Well, WAS she born through IVF?
            If not, she has a mother, a father, and another woman who wants to bathe with her against her will…

          • Michael C

            Well, WAS she born through IVF?

            Yes. That’s what it says in the article you just read.

            Isabella was conceived by IVF while Lisa Miller was enjoined with Janet Jenkins in a civil union. Together, Lisa and Janet named their daughter Isabella Miller-Jenkins.

        • Ambulance Chaser

          Why do you think she legally has no rights to her? The family court believed otherwise.

  • Martin Smit

    If this was a “civil” union, then why are criminal penalties being applied?

    • Ambulance Chaser

      This is so far from understanding the situation that I have to question whether you’re doing it deliberately.

      Miller and Jenkins had a Civil Union, which was dissolved, giving rise to the events that happened here, but that doesn’t mean any of this is a civil lawsuit. The defendants are charged criminally with kidnapping.

  • james blue

    If the situation was reversed and it was the biological mother who “remained” a lesbian and fled the country to prevent the “ex” lesbian who had converted to Christianity would you be defending the actions of the person who helped her defy a court order?

  • BigHobbit

    Guilty as charged. Potentially 8 years.
    When you conspire to evade the law, there are consequences.