Devoted Adoptive Father, Abolitionist Dies Suddenly, Leaving Behind Wife and Seven Children

AUSTIN, Texas — A devoted adoptive father, husband and abortion abolitionist died suddenly on Thursday after emergency rescuers were unable to locate him in time when he went underwater during a family outing at the lake.

Cody May, 31, had just recently moved his family to Texas after residing in Connecticut for many years, where he and his wife Kimberly opened their home to those needing a place to stay. The couple also took to heart the biblical mandate to care for the fatherless (James 1:27), adopting six children—three from Ethiopia, two from the Congo, and one local to Connecticut.

May was an ardent abortion abolitionist, as he sought a complete end to abortion as opposed to the incremental approach embraced by many who identify as pro-life. He often stood outside of abortion facilities preaching the Word of God and pleading with mothers not to kill their children.

May and his wife personally adopted two IVF embryos, also known as snowflake adoption, after learning that thousands of frozen embryos from in vitro fertilizations are discarded and destroyed. The pregnancy ended in miscarriage.

In addition to his own life’s work, May urged and taught others to love the least of these in the name of Jesus Christ.

“We have the authority to go into all the world [with the good news], not because we’re special, but our God reigns,” he declared at an abolitionist gathering in Memphis, Tennessee in 2014.

According to KEYE-TV, May, who visited Lake Travis in Lago Vista on Thursday afternoon, was wading out to meet his children who were floating on a raft when he suddenly went underwater after unknowingly reaching a drop-off.

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“As he was walking out, he hit one of those drop-offs and went straight down and he was in obvious distress,” Kristen Dark of the Travis County Sheriff’s Office told reporters.

A fisherman nearby tried to help May, but was unable to rescue him. Emergency services looked for May, but after 30 minutes, changed the mission from a rescue to a recovery. Reports state the Travis County Sheriff’s Office Victim Services stayed with May’s family for hours to console them in their grief.

May’s body was found by a dive team Friday morning. He and his wife had celebrated 11 years of marriage in August.

“Kimberly is undoubtedly one of the greatest evidences of God’s undeserved favor in my life, and I’m forever grateful that she was willing to enter into the covenant of marriage with me,” he wrote on social media in recognition of their anniversary. “The Lord has blessed us with many arrows and gifts since then, but the greatest earthly gift to me of all is providing His daughter for me to honor, protect, and cherish.”


A YouCaring page was launched Thursday night to help provide for the needs of May’s wife and children, initially setting a goal of $10,000. By mid-morning Friday, the goal was surpassed and extended to $50,000.

Elliot Ratzman, who knew May when he was a freshman at Princeton University in New Jersey, shared his sentiments on Facebook. May graduated from Princeton in 2007.

“At Princeton he was from day one an unusual sight: a tall thin guy with a cowboy hat, a Southern drawl, an intense gaze, a warm comportment. His ideas and uncompromising faith didn’t fit in well with Princeton’s secular and liberal students, but he was widely well-regarded. Though I don’t share his politics or his religion, I remember with fondness Cody’s moral integrity and consistency,” he posted in part, encouraging others to support May’s widow.

Memories of May, and condolences for his wife and family, also poured in from around the country from those who knew him from his abolition work.

“He was a very kind and gentle brother who carried forth the word of God with the authority of God. He adored his family, and they adored him. He opened his home to many a missionary traveling through CT, and welcomed each and every one of us as he would his closest family,” one friend recalled. “Yes, death has lost it’s sting for those who pass on, but for those who are still here, the heart aches and grieves.”

“His humility and joy both challenged and encouraged me. He walked close with His Lord, fought valiantly for the Kingdom, and has entered into his rest,” another wrote, explaining that they once met May at a conference.

“Cody lived for the Lord in a world where so many others never truly live at all. Those without a voice to defend themselves against this world, they lost a champion today,” a third lamented.

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  • Grace Kim Kwon

    A hero. The Lord takes care of his family. May God bless them and comfort them. Christian abolitionists freed slaves 150 years ago. They rescue the world’s babies today. If the USA admits that abortion is murder, so will many nations. Christian Church alone keeps teaching mankind to repent of sins and trust in the Saviour Jesus and value everyone’s life. The light in the world as Jesus said. Jesus is the Light and the Life. (Matthew chapters 5-7, John chapters 8-10 and14)

  • Robert

    What sweet children he has . And there mom seems like she enjoys being there mom also. A transfer for him from the church militant to the church Triumphant . You can’t best that being the best thing either.

  • michael louwe

    Didn’t the lousy Rino Bush’es also moved from liberal Blue Connecticut to conservative Red Texas to profit from the oil business n then went on to destroy America.?
    ……. More like a foolish liberal Christian from Connecticut trying to corrupt/dirty conservative Texas by implanting Black kids = future Democrat voters. Why couldn’t they adopt poor White kids/orphans.?

  • David Houston

    What a great man. How sad that his funeral was interrupted by a cult in East Texas, referred to as the Church of Wells, trying to recruit other members.

  • NCOriolesFan

    Sounds like Lake Travis needs warning signs of a steep drop-off in shallow water.